One of my favorite aspects of the BDSM lifestyle… “Forced” consent.
For my own peace of mind, I do want to remind everyone of the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” mantra and guidelines of our lifestyle. The participants in “Forced Consent” should always go over .. safety/safe words, limits, likes/dislikes, and should trust each other before participating in this play.
The definition of “Forced Consent” is… (From Wikipedia)
Consensual non-consent, also called meta-consent and blanket consent, is a mutual agreement to be able to act as if consent has been waived. It is an agreement where comprehensive consent is given in advance, with the intent of it being irrevocable under most circumstances. This often occurs without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned.
Consensual non-consent is considered a show of extreme trust and understanding. It is controversial within BDSM circles, even often frowned upon due to concerns about abuse and safety. It is mainly limited to those in Owner/property and 24/7 Master/slave relationships.
In recent years the term has also been used for the practice in play sessions. In the past, the term consensual non-consent was reserved to committed relationships, while the play practice used the umbrella term of edge play. This expanded scope is contentious and the subject of acrimonious debates.
In limited parts of the online BDSM community, “consensual non-consent” is instead used to refer to rape play that includes the use of safe words. This use of the term is commonly frowned upon, especially among total power exchange lifestyle participants. Experienced practitioners of BDSM generally discourage others from using “consensual non-consent” to indicate rape play. This attitude arises from the belief that it is a miscommunication potentially leading to serious and irreparable psychological harm.
That all being said…
i love love love when my mouth, or – for that matter, any of my holes are TAKEN. Cock slamming into me from behind, a belt around my throat, a hand in my hair, yanking my head back.
The abduction fantasy is also a major .. major thrill and turn on for me. The thought of… i’m out on one of my morning walks, being abducted (by someone i know and trust btw!), taken to a remote place.. being blindfolded, gagged, bruised, face fucked, my cunt and ass taken, .. feeling i’m torn in two. Pissed on, cummed on, slapped, broken, bitten, brutally marked. There are times, in variations of this fantasy, when breath play , knife play, trampling, gang bang are also included… but that’s because i’m not only into TPE, and the “Mind Fuck”, i’m also into pain. feeling as if i’m at the total mercy, broken and crushed by the Dominant.
Leave me a comment! Let me know what YOU like, what YOU Think about “forced consent”, YOUR experiences with it.